vrijdag 7 december 2012

Abrupt einde

Vandaag werden we gebeld door mijn schoonvader. Mijn ''schoonmoeder'' (zijn tweede vrouw, sinds 8 jaar) is overleden. Ze werd al tijden gekweld door depressies en heeft besloten haar leven zelf te beëindigen. Ze is gevonden door de politie.

Ze was heel lief, vreselijk gastvrij en altijd geïnteresseerd. Nu klinkt ''altijd'' een beetje stom, we hadden elkaar inmiddels alweer drie jaar niet gezien. Ze wonen bovenin Noord Groningen en steeds kwam er van beide kanten van alles tussen om elkaar weer te ontmoeten. En nu zullen we haar nooit meer zien.

Volgens mij had ze het niet naar haar zin waar ze nu woonde want ze zei steeds dat ze graag weer naar het zuiden wilde verhuizen, maar waren zij en mijn schoonvader wel gelukkig samen. Ik heb medelijden met haar dat zij zich zo slecht voelde, dat deze drastische daad de enige uitweg was die ze zag. En met mijn schoonvader, die er nu weer alleen voor staat.

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